Daily Devotional: Making Our Husband’s Happiness a Daily Priority 💖

Recently, my sister and I were talking about marriage, and she said something that really made me pause and reflect. She said, “Imagine if every day we woke up with one main goal in mind: to please our husbands and make sure they were nothing short of happy. If everything else came secondary, imagine how great our marriages would be.”

Her words struck me because, so often, we can start to view certain aspects of marriage—like sex, quality time, and other ways of connecting—as just another item on our to-do list. When life gets busy or stressful, it’s easy to see these things as chores rather than acts of love. But the truth is, our role as wives is not a burden or obligation—it’s a beautiful calling, a purposeful role designed by God Himself. When we shift our focus to truly prioritizing our husband’s happiness and well-being, our marriages can thrive in ways we may never have imagined.

Created to Be His Help Meet

In Genesis 2:18, we read: “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” God created woman specifically to be a companion and helper to her husband, and in Genesis 2:22, He took a rib from Adam to form Eve. This symbolic act reminds us that we were designed from the very beginning to walk alongside our husbands, to support them, and to be their partners in life.

Our purpose as wives is foundational—serving our husbands, meeting their needs, and bringing joy to their lives is not secondary or incidental; it is central to our role. Just as Eve was created from Adam’s rib, close to his heart, we are called to be near, to support, and to fulfill the role God has uniquely given us. By embracing this calling, we honor God’s design and fulfill a purpose that brings blessings to our husbands, our families, and ourselves.

The Biblical Foundation of a Wife’s Role

The Bible gives us a clear understanding of the structure and purpose within marriage. In Ephesians 5:22-23 (KJV), it says: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.”

This scripture reminds us that submission is not about diminishing ourselves; it’s about choosing to love, support, and prioritize our husbands with a humble heart, just as we would serve the Lord. Our role as wives is sacred, and part of that role is to bring joy, peace, and fulfillment into our husbands’ lives. When we make our husband’s happiness a priority, we reflect Christ’s selfless love in our marriage.

Choosing to Serve with Joy and Purpose

Our society often celebrates independence and self-fulfillment above all else, but biblical womanhood shows us another path. As wives, we are called to serve with love, humility, and purpose. When we embrace our role fully, we don’t lose ourselves; instead, we build a marriage and a home that reflects God’s love and purpose.

If we start each day with the intention to make our husbands feel valued, respected, and supported, we can transform our marriage into a strong, joyful partnership. By choosing to prioritize our husbands’ happiness, we’re not sacrificing ourselves; we’re investing in the strength and unity of our marriage.

Practical Ways to Prioritize His Happiness

1. Start the Day with Prayer for Him: Before you get out of bed, take a moment to pray specifically for your husband’s needs, his day, and his spiritual journey. Lifting him up in prayer shows him that his well-being is your priority.

2. Find Small Ways to Show Appreciation: Simple gestures—a heartfelt note, a small act of kindness, or even a word of encouragement—show him that he’s valued and loved. Let him know you see his efforts and appreciate all he does.

3. Support His Vision and Goals: One of the most powerful ways to show love is by believing in his dreams. Whether they’re spiritual, personal, or professional, encourage him in his pursuits and let him know that you’re there to support him.

What Not To Do

1. Don’t Focus on His Flaws: It’s easy to get caught up in noticing the things he could improve. Instead, make it a habit to celebrate his strengths and pray for growth where it’s needed.

2. Don’t Overlook His Efforts: Whether he’s working hard to provide, helping around the house, or spending quality time with the family, let him know you appreciate his efforts. Acknowledging the big and small things he does reinforces that he is valued.

3. Don’t Let Frustrations Turn into Criticism: When challenges arise, approach them with patience and grace. Instead of criticizing, seek to build him up and address issues with a loving heart.

A Prayer for Today

Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of marriage and for the opportunity to serve as a wife. Help me to embrace my role with joy and purpose, to make my husband’s happiness a priority, and to honor You through my actions. Fill me with a heart of love, humility, and patience. May my service and love for my husband reflect Your grace and create a home filled with peace and unity. In Yahshua’s name, Amen.

Reflecting on Our Calling as Wives

Imagine how fulfilling our marriages would be if every day we woke up with the simple goal of making our husband’s happiness our priority. By choosing to serve with joy and purpose, we honor God’s design for marriage and create a bond that reflects His love.

So, let’s start each day with this prayerful intention, knowing that in fulfilling our husbands’ godly desires and meeting their needs, we’re building a legacy of love, unity, and faith.