The Spirit of Murmuring: A Call to Gratitude and Obedience

Murmuring—those quiet complaints, whispered frustrations, or inward grumblings—is more dangerous than we often realize. At its core, murmuring is a reflection of dissatisfaction, a lack of trust, and, ultimately, an ungrateful heart. Whether it’s murmuring against a spouse, a leader, our circumstances, or even the Most High, this spirit dishonors God and sows discord in our lives.

As I reflected on the role murmuring plays in my own life, I began to see how it subtly creeps into various areas—my role as a wife, my responsibilities as a mother, and even my approach to the Sabbath. The Bible has much to say about murmuring, and it’s clear that it’s a sin that grieves God.

Let’s dive into the dangers of murmuring, explore its presence in different areas of life, and learn how to replace it with gratitude and obedience.

What is Murmuring?

Murmuring isn’t always loud or obvious. It often shows up as:

• Complaining under your breath.

• Dwelling on what’s wrong instead of what’s right.

• Expressing dissatisfaction in subtle ways, like sarcasm or passive-aggressive comments.

In the Bible, murmuring is often tied to disobedience and unbelief. When the Israelites murmured against Moses in the wilderness, they weren’t just complaining about their circumstances—they were doubting God’s provision and plan.

“Neither murmur ye, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer.” (1 Corinthians 10:10, KJV)

This verse reminds us that murmuring can lead to destruction—of relationships, faith, and the blessings God has given us. It’s not just about complaining; it’s about a heart posture that rejects God’s sovereignty.

Murmuring in Different Aspects of Life

1. Murmuring Against Your Husband

As wives, it’s easy to fall into the trap of murmuring about our husbands. Whether it’s frustration over their habits, decisions, or lack of help, murmuring creates division. Instead of building up our husbands, it tears them down and dishonors the role God has called us to fulfill.

“A wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.” (Proverbs 14:1, KJV)

When we murmur against our husbands, we’re tearing down our homes. Replacing murmuring with encouragement and prayer strengthens our marriages and honors God.

2. Murmuring Against Leaders

In church settings, murmuring often shows up as criticism of leadership. Whether it’s dissatisfaction with decisions, sermons, or ministry directions, murmuring creates division in the body of Christ.

“Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.” (Hebrews 13:17, KJV)

Leaders are accountable to God for their roles, and murmuring against them not only dishonors their authority but also sows discord within the church.

3. Murmuring About Circumstances

Whether it’s financial struggles, work stress, or daily frustrations, murmuring about our circumstances shows a lack of trust in God’s plan.

“Do all things without murmurings and disputings: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God…” (Philippians 2:14-15, KJV)

Contentment is the antidote to murmuring. When we trust in God’s provision and plan, we can find peace even in difficult circumstances.

Murmuring on the Sabbath

The Sabbath is a holy day—a time to rest and reflect on God’s goodness. Yet, murmuring can creep in when we’re unprepared, overwhelmed, or distracted.

Examples of Murmuring on the Sabbath:

• Complaining about the effort it takes to prepare.

• Grumbling about restrictions, like not being able to shop or cook.

• Focusing on what didn’t get done instead of embracing the peace of the day.

“This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.” (Psalm 118:24, KJV)

The Sabbath is a gift from God. When we murmur, we reject that gift and rob ourselves of the joy and peace it offers.

The Danger of Murmuring

Murmuring isn’t harmless. It:

• Grieves God: Murmuring reflects a lack of faith and gratitude.

• Destroys Relationships: Whether in marriage, church, or friendships, murmuring breeds division.

• Hinders Blessings: By focusing on complaints, we miss the blessings right in front of us.

“And when the people complained, it displeased the Lord: and the Lord heard it; and his anger was kindled…” (Numbers 11:1, KJV)

How to Overcome Murmuring

1. Recognize It: Pay attention to moments when you’re murmuring and ask yourself why.

2. Replace It with Gratitude: For every complaint, find a reason to thank God.

3. Pray for a Heart of Contentment: Ask God to help you trust His plan and embrace a spirit of joy.

4. Prepare Intentionally: For the Sabbath, start your preparation early to avoid unnecessary stress.

“I choose to replace murmuring with gratitude. I trust in God’s plan and embrace His blessings with a joyful heart.”

A Prayer to Combat Murmuring

Heavenly Father, forgive me for the times I have murmured and dishonored You. Teach me to recognize the blessings in my life and to approach every situation with gratitude and faith. Help me to honor the Sabbath with a heart free of complaints, focusing on the peace and joy You have given me. Guard my heart against murmuring in my marriage, my church, and my daily life. May I reflect Your love and grace in all I do. In Yahshua’s name, Amen.

Murmuring may seem small, but its impact is profound. It reflects a heart that’s out of alignment with God’s will and robs us of the peace and joy He wants us to experience. Whether it’s murmuring against your husband, leaders, or life’s circumstances, the solution is the same: gratitude, trust, and obedience.

On this Sabbath and beyond, let’s commit to honoring God by replacing murmuring with praise. As we embrace gratitude, we’ll find ourselves living in the fullness of His blessings.